Personalized Relationship Coaching

For everyone under the ENM umbrella

The Freeform philosophy is that there’s no “right way” to do non-monogamy, so we offer 1:1 coaching for all relationship structures and philosophies - whether you’re an individual, couple, or a relational orbit with 3 or more people - we’ve got something for everyone!

What my clients are saying…

About the coaching process


“Nicole truly takes the time to customize the sessions to the client. My wife and I started in a place where we didn’t know the emotions we were feeling regarding joining the ENM community. There were a lot of unknowns, a lot of mixed messages, and just a general difficulty in communicating our wants and needs. Nicole understood the perspective of each of us, and helped us understand each other. We have completed Nicole’s initial program, and feel much closer, stronger, and more prepared for any adventure that comes our way. Not just within the ENM community, but across our marriage in general.”

- Jim D.

Jealousy • Shame • Consent • Boundaries & Agreements 

Transitioning from Monogamy • Dating •Exploring Kinks • New Relationship Energy • Conflicting Interests • Desire Discrepancy • Relationship De-escalation & Transitions

Dealing with Rejection • Relationship with Self • Play Parties • Relationship Anarchy • Coming out as Non-Monogamous • Fear of Abandonment

• Navigating Sex Work • Unlearning Monogamy • Relationship Repair • Relationship with Metas (Partners’ Partners) •

Negotiating Power Dynamics • Conflict Resolution • Solo Polyamory

Let’s get started!