The Real Rules of Non-Monogamy - Get Schooled with Marcela Alonso

In this episode of Get Schooled, Marcela chats with Nicole about men’s mental health and how patriarchy impacts their ability to navigate emotions and relationships, navigating dating in ENM and the Lifestyle, and the stigmatization of Sex Work.

How Sex Negativity and Shame are Used to Control Us - TMI with Aldous Tyler

In this interview with Aldous Tyler, Nicole speaks about how being shamed about our sexual desires and genders is a useful tool for control under capitalism, our needs be damned. We go over how to process shame and see ourselves in a more positive light.

Reacting to ENM Reddit Stories - The Fun With Sex Podcast

Nicole and Natalie react to questions Redditors have asked online about their ENM relationships. We share valuable insights that can be helpful whether you're new to ENM or not.

What is ENM Coaching? - Fun with Sex Podcast

Nicole gives the inside scoop on what coaching looks like, who it's for, how people can benefit from it, and how it differs from traditional therapy. 

ENM, Embodied Sexuality, & Open-Hearted Womanhood - Universal Intimacy Podcast

In this episode of Universal Intimacy host Josephine Lauer sits down with Ashley Summers and Nicole Sonnefeldt, co-founders of the upcoming women’s empowerment retreat UNLEASHED taking place in Chicago on February 21, 2026. Together we explore the deeply personal journeys that led Ashley and Nicole to create a trauma-informed, sex-positive space for women to reconnect with their fullest selves.